Women know how a lot of techniques, thanks to which they can awaken in man the desire to have sex. I am of the opinion that the use of such techniques should only the fairer sex, but in respect of them is not necessary.
However, thoughtful men who want to really pleasure your partner, they ask about how to excite a woman. Maybe they do it to some extent and for themselves, because if she is happy, and the male is able to give pleasure.
What steps do I need to do?
The men realise that all the representatives of the opposite sex is different, and this means that the approach to their every need to look for the individual. And yet, there are versatile tricks that can help to excite the partner, or, at least, set the mood for the upcoming evening.
Romance. Arrange should the representative of the stronger sex, if you calculate the pleasant continuation of the evening.
Candles and a delicious dinner – the first step to create the desired atmosphere. Not all men cooks, and this is not necessary. It is possible to build a light dinner, but even if it is not in force, you can simply order food from the bar or restaurant.
Everyone knows that there are a lot of products, able, so to speak, to lift a man's mood, but also on the female libido can also be made with the food. Excite representative of the fairer sex will be easier, if you ... assaggera is the top banana, orange, corn, currants, grapes, honey, pistachios, mango, shrimp, vanilla, chocolate.
All together you can, of course, does not bring to the table, but also of one or more products to this list will be sufficient. Relax help you and a little bit of alcohol, and both. Only here hard liquor in large quantity to consume is not worth it, to not relax too much.
Among other things, alcohol causes you to play the hormones, and then the excitement can come to both quickly:
- Flowers. Representatives of the stronger sex feel that strongly bouquet is trivial, uninteresting, and, in general, has been deleted, but it is not so. The flowers help to approach not only mentally, but also establish a woman at the physical closeness. They can also be different and act on the weaker sex. For example, mallow, ylang-ylang, jasmine, they have a scent that will help you to configure the representative of the fairer sex romantic mood;
- Words. Who does not know that the woman loves the ears. Sweet words, spoken in a whisper, have a magical effect. Of course, they must be on as is beautiful, like the beautiful long locks on the shoulders and seductive eyes sparkle;
- Excite the partner to properly and quickly help to correct the sentences in a duet with touches, light strokes – gentle, sensual. Need to find her erogenous zones. Most of the fairer sex it is pleasant to caress the chest, neck, hips, but each of them is individual, and the man should try to find some kind of point, that is the erogenous zone for you. For some people, this can be the toes, to someone like the pats bending of the elbows, and someone and the pats on the roots of the hair;
- The massage. Tactile caresses can cause partner, the desire to get more touch and massage in this case will be very useful. Better start with the back, then, invites the girl to lie down on the belly. Develop massage movements need to the neck, gently advancing along the back along the spine. The massage is important to the sequence, so the back need to come down with the hands to the hips, and then on foot to the toes, the foot. For many women, feet and toes – erogenous zones, but if you touch, they are too easy, your partner may experience the itching, and these sensations can completely scare the romance. Noting the minimum of discomfort on his part, a man needs to stop to massage a particular area. In this erotic massage in your home does not end here. Help the girl to turn around, lie down on your back. Tap the face, neck, ears, head, chest, stomach;
- The smells. Not worth the effort to ignore them and, among other things, during the massage also. Vanilla, patchouli, musk, mint, jasmine, ylang-ylang – all of these smells are able to give the partner the right atmosphere. During the massage you can use oils with these fragrances, it does not hurt, and aromatherapy candles to create intimate atmosphere. In this case, it is important not to overdo it. If you will be too flavours, will be invasive, and may cause headaches;
- Music. Has perfectly stimulates sexual desire, but which should be, in large part depends on the preferences of the girl. Considered better than all others excites soothing music or that which you like most to the partner. Better if it does not sound strong, but otherwise a romantic evening is in danger of becoming a concert.
The women love and the eyes
Many people think that this only applies to the stronger sex, but and the lord also oriented not only to the organs of hearing.
What else can energize a woman at the sight of a man?
- Oblivious to open a shirt. Almost 2/3 of the fairer sex feel sexual desire, if in front of them a man with his shirt open;
- Skinny Jeans or short shorts. At the sight of the men in this wedding is excited about the half of the fairer sex;
- Sunglasses. Apparently, in males sunglasses, girls see the mystery that makes every fourth of them experience the passion for him;
- Repair car. The man is passionate about this way, is capable of arousing the sexual desire is not more than 30% of the fairer sex;
- The preparation of the food. Almost half of the girls like it when a representative of the stronger sex is preparing in the kitchen.
In addition, the girl can experience the excitement, when he is naked, sitting, lying on his belly, sleeps, or goes with straightened shoulders.
Some of the fairer sex can get excited at the sight of men's underwear, even if you only see it in the store.
If a woman is 40
The fairer sex at that age rapidly excite is not always possible. Hits reduced hormonal activity, for which you stop in the right amount to stand out lubrication, the sexual attraction to the opposite sex, in general, does not become so, as it was previously.
Sometimes to obtain a rapid implementation of a partner, of which more than 40 years, it is necessary to use a lubricant, but this is only the physical aspect.
Not less important the mental attitude of a woman. You can get the same methods and with the women of other age groups – romance, caresses, sweet words, massages, pleasant music and relaxing atmosphere, the flavors.
Particular attention should be paid to the words that she says. Because of some physiological characteristics at this age, you can experience the psychological discomfort, you enjoy your look more worried than before. It is important to convey to the partner that she is sexually attractive, and if there will be some difficulties, they can be overcome, also thanks to a man.
If it is possible to excite frigid women?
If the girl is indifferent to the intimate, in every way, avoids them, feel disgusted at the thought of having sex or is not able to have an orgasm, it is called such.
In reality these women very little, and in many cases, the girls refuse to have sex, the others are right – a negative experience the previous report, the mistrust towards the partner, etc Lack of orgasm can also be a manifestation of frigidity, and a sign that the man is bad work.
Excite frigid woman, if is really such, is really difficult. For this it is necessary to know not only her erogenous zones, that, like other women, does not necessarily lie in the area of the breasts, genitals, thighs, but also to customize his / her psychologically. To do this, you need to understand the cause of his problem.
In some cases, the girls must work a doctor. A specialist in possession of an interview about the characteristics of intimate relationships, and discreetly with the help of test understand what are the girl erogenous zones.
If a woman is really such, the use of excitatory drugs hardly help you, and if it helps, to exit a position will not be.
Even if the stable partner relationship with the opposite sex is always different. Both partners need to always look for new ways to "do" and to meet one another, otherwise with time the relationship can seem both fresh and enter into a phase of stalemate.